About 12 hours after I posted on the blog last Monday, I went into labor on my own. After my appointment on Monday, I was having some contractions that were a little stronger than what was typical for me and my low back was hurting. One of very best friends (whom I shared a due date with!) had her baby girl the previous Thursday so we went over to their house to meet her and have dinner with them Monday night. We got home Monday night and went to bed. I woke up around 4 AM to go to the bathroom and couldn't fall back asleep, so I turned on the TV. Around 5:30 I was getting pretty drowsy so I rolled over in bed and felt a pop...my water breaking! It was definitely a strange sensation but not a big gush of water like you see in movies. I went to the bathroom and verified that it was indeed my water breaking. I woke up Harrison and called the on call doctor. She said to head on in to the hospital but that it didn't sound like we needed to be in a huge rush as my contractions were about 10 minutes apart. I took a quick shower, we finished packing up, said goodbye to the dog and life as just the two of us and headed to the hospital. By the time we arrived to the hospital about an hour after my water had broken, my contractions were about 4 minutes apart, and man, did they hurt. Since we got to the hospital right around 6:30, there were 2 other pregnant women checking in for scheduled deliveries. They were nice enough to let me check in first since it was clear that I was in active labor!
I was triaged and checked and was 4.5 cm dilated. They got me in a room and I immediately asked for my epidural which I got around 8 AM. (P.S. Epidurals are completely amazing and I am convinced are a gift from God! Any woman that can do labor naturally is my hero!) After my epidural, they checked me and I was 8cm! By 10 AM I was completely dilated. It was a crazy day on the Labor and Delivery floor. There were 2 c-sections my doctor needed to do and 2 other women in labor and delivering when I was! Because of the craziness and since they knew I wanted to limit the amount of pushing, they let me "labor down" for a few hours. Basically it was letting my body and contractions to push her lower. I had my epidural so I was completely comfortable. Till about 1pm, they let me labor down and we hung out in the room with my family.
Around 1pm, the doctor was finally available, so they got everything all set up and ready for her big arrival. (Crazy side note: My in laws were on their way from Nashville so my mom was texting with my mother in law and giving her updates. My mom mentioned the doctor's name, who was another doctor in the practice on the non high risk side, but not my usual doctor. It turns out, the doctor that was about to deliver my daughter was the same doctor that delivered my husband 30 years ago!!) I officially started pushing at 1:50pm and at 2:25pm, our sweet daughter was born! I can't even explain the flood of emotions I had when I saw her come out and heard her cry. Harrison and I both immediately broke down in sobs. I felt incredible joy, love, and thankfulness but also relief and the overwhelming sense of "finally!" It was the culmination of emotions of 3 years of infertility and failures and finally overcoming all the hurdles. We waited so long and worked so hard for that moment. It was a moment that is impossible to adequately put into words.
When my water broke, their was a slight hint of meconium (aka baby's poop) so they immediately took her to the warmer to suction her really well and assess her. She was crying and doing well but because of the possibility of meconium aspiration, Harrison was only able to hold her for a minute. I was able to give her a few kisses, but then they took her to the nursery to be hooked up to an oxygen monitor for a little while to make sure her breathing and oxygen status were ok.
A couple hours later, we were reunited with our daughter. Introducing Carter Elizabeth...
|Meeting her Great Grandmother and Namesake, Harrison's grandmother Carter|
We were discharged Friday afternoon and began our life as a family of 3!
|Going home with our girl!|
|Her newborn photo shoot. 4 days old|
|8 days old|